My new do

I got my hair cut, quite short for me. It is a long layered bob style, and I love it. I haven't learned to fix it just right yet, but it is loaded with potential. Mike doesn't like it at all. He can't even bring himself to say something like "If it makes you happy, then I'm happy." Nope. He just says "We'll have to agree to disagree on the length of your hair." The noteable word in that sentence is 'your'. Sigh....makes me feel so damn unpretty. I finally have the courage to try a shorter style, albeit a longer short style and this is his behavior. I know I'm a bigger girl. If I were a skinny mini, would it matter to him what length my hair was? I don't think it would. I feel he would have me be unhappy as long as I fit his dream hair girl. I am resentful his open betrayal of my feelings. As we talked about it, I felt a little part of me that loves him die away - shattered by his disdain.